expecting & considering adoption

This page is for all the expecting Moms who are also considering adoption for their unborn child. On this page, I've included a few adoption links, as well as pregnancy links. Have a link to suggest? Just drop me a line!

What you won't find on this page is the term "Birthmother" ...why? To quote from "Planning an Adoption Placement" by Bill Betzen:

"...Until there is an adoption, the person planning adoption is referred to as a parent, mother or father. It is only after the adoption that the term birth parent is used. The adoption process changes your role as a parent. Until then you are a parent in every since of the term."

I recommend visiting his link below!

... parenting is an option


resources

Planning an Adoption Placement

Wonderful article for parents considering placement for their child. Topics include: "What an open adoption is not" and "Be able to change your mind" - A must read!


What to Consider if You're Considering Adoption

Article by Skye Hardwick for those who are considering adoption for their unborn child.


What to Consider if You're Considering Adoption: Part II

A follow up article by Skye Hardwick for those who are considering adoption for their unborn child.


Lifemothers.com Parenting Resources & Single Parenting

Need resources for parenting your child? Check out the parenting resource page and the Single Parenting page at Lifemothers.com!


Most Loving Option

We are here to offer that much-neglected Third Option when a woman finds herself in a "crisis" pregnancy. Read from the experiences of other Moms who have "been there and done that." Ask them questions and explore the wonderful option of keeping your baby.


Mother's Bill of Rights

Natural and Reunited Mother shares with those expecting important Bill of Rights that an adoption agency may not have told you.


State by State Listing of Pregnancy Shelters

If you are pregnant and have no where to go, check your state to see the listing of shelters to go to. This list is put together by Lifecall.org.


Choosing an Adoption Agency

Informative article on choosing an adoption agency.



Insight:Open Adoption Resources and Support

Good information on open adoption. Various informative articles, and books to purchase. The director, Brenda Romanchik, is available to talk one on one with an expecting and considering parent.


Unmarried and Pregnant Beware

First mother, Josee Larose, writes a very informative article, with many points to consider if you are considering adoption.



Is There Still Coercsion in Adoption?

First mother, Josee Larose, asks a very important question.



Know Your Type

Wonderful article by author, Courtney Frey, about the different types of adoption. An easy to read aritcle describing the differences between open, semi-open, and closed adoption.


The Mind of a Newborn

How much do newborns know? More than you think -- check out this informative article!


Birth Control

Informative article on Birth Control by author Courtney Frey


Parenting Insights

Considering adoption because you don't have much help or money? Check out this group to see listings of help and resources for keeping your baby in your state!


Adoption Agency Checklist

If you're considering open adoption, here's a must read checklist of questions to ask about an agency and directly to the agency, from the American Association of Open Adoption Agencies.


"Things I Wished I'd Known!"

Birthmother Heather Lowe's list of things she, and other birthmom's, wishes they had known before placement.


Who Cares About Keeping This Family Together?

A classic adoption reform article from the CUB achieves, circa 80's.


I'm Pregnant

Informative website for those who find themselves in an unplanned pregnancy. Lots of great links and info.


Post Adoption Agreement Contracts

A very informative article on about.com's adoption site. What they are post-adoption agreement contracts, why you might want to make one, how to make one, and legal considerations.


Interactive Pregnancy Calendar

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Awesome Fetal Development Site

See what your baby looks like before it's born!





Grapics by Cute Colors

... there is help